Reason for boring social life in HK

Here is the summary of most situation:

1. Most of my weekday free time is already reserved for running 2-3 nights.
2. When I do not run, I am thinking do nothing so I can recover better and faster and strong on the next run.
3. Having interesting friend and interesting activity, but we are too busy can't find time that fit both of us.
4. Having interesting friend but the activity is boring. Okay, buddy, see you next time.
5. Having interesting activity but the friend is boring. Plz, I don't want to spend time with you.
6. I love shopping but shopping in HK suck. Shopping Mall, Shopping mall, and shopping mall. Where is out door shopping mall, out door open market, and out door coffee house? (crying)
7. I am a strong stereotyping people. I rare to speak to Hongky girl. They are vampire. They die under the sun. And, I can't save their soul.
8. Hongky think travelling more time 30 mins is too long. Don't even need to mention 60min.
9. I love eating, but I can't eat much because I am very cautious about my weight. Hongky activity involves eating gathering, eating hangout after work, eating great meal with buffet, eating reunion, happy eating weekend....
10. I am married, everything not involves my children, kids, sprouts is no go. - See you in another life.